Nudity Note: This is a webinar style workshop. There will be no nudity on screen, and no need for any nudity from participants. Get comfy, listen and learn

Are you keen to explore your submissive desires further and really embrace the D/s lifestyle? Or perhaps you’re just curious about how to be more submissive for your partner in the bedroom. In this workshop, Sarah will discuss how you can begin to understand what it means to be submissive and develop your submissive style with confidence.

Learn to do’s and don’ts of submission, how to get what you want out of submission, and how to work towards creating a submissive lifestyle that works for you and your partner(s). In this workshop we will cover topics such as:

This Workshop Will Include:

  • What is Submission?

  • Understanding your submissive style

  • Identifying areas of resistance (pushing limits safely)

  • Bratting vs Topping from the bottom

  • How to harness and embrace your submissive identity (with or without a partner)

  • Collaring and self-collaring

  • Training, tasks and punishment

  • Aftercare and self-care as a submissive

This workshop is open to those who are single or in a relationship. The only thing you need to bring is yourself and an open mind, plus pen and paper to take notes.

Tailor Matched is a thoughtleading matchmaking agency based in the UK that connects singles based on compatibility both inside and outside the bedroom. They are the only dating agency worldwide that creates personal introductions based on sexual, emotional and intellectual compatibility.

Sarah Butcher is a Kink Consultant and Matchmaker at Tailor Matched and empowers others to explore their sexuality through providing a safe and welcoming space to gain a deeper understanding of BDSM practices so that they can enjoy their exploration with confidence.

Please note: This event is not hosted by KK and may be advertised on other platforms.

All of our Educators and their events are approved and recommended by Killing Kittens.

This event is still free for Premium users.



A guide to being the best submissive you can be


Date and Time

Wednesday 27th Jul 22
19:30 BST


Kitten Ticket

Tom Ticket

Kitten + Guest Ticket

Dress Code

Comfortable attire

Event Type