Women today have grown up with a lack of pleasure-infused sex education, and therefore solely rely on cultural messages that are often damaging. At best, they can leave us a little confused, but more often they leave us hating how our bodies look, having no idea how to influence our own libidos and worrying about how to really please our partners.

Female empowerment is a phenomenal force, but it undermines itself whenever it tries to play into an over-masculine energy; when success is only defined through a materialistic lens, when we are only powerful if we are competitive ‘bulldogs’ in the boardroom, when we shut down our feelings and sex becomes devoid of emotions because we think letting our emotions in will make us girly and weak.

We are the generation where this stops.


The Contemporary Goddess has emerged; we are leaders in business, we are innovators, we take personal responsibility over our lives, we are successful, we are ambitious and we care. We tune into our emotional intelligence, we kick ass in the boardroom and a we are empowered by our sexuality.

In this two-hour talk, we introduce the pleasure-infused sex education that allows us to empower our lives with our sexuality, filling in all the missing pieces of information around the female arousal system and igniting the contemporary goddess within us all.

We will cover:

  • Why being the bulldog in the boardroom is killing your sex life; the cultural climate around female sexuality
  • The importance of pleasure-infused sex education
  • Understanding your sexual and emotional needs
  • Why sex should be your own self-care practice

Caroline D’Arcy is a bad-ass sex educator, public speaker and founder of Inti-Mate, the home of pleasure-infused sex education for women.


After a decade in the corporate world, she had built a successful life on paper, but inside she felt disconnected and alone. Drive, ambition and a destructive relationship or two had left her with walls so high she didn’t know how to let anyone in.


Caroline established Inti-Mate when she realised that there was no safe, go-to space that she herself would use to access high-quality sex education. She decided to create a space that provided the kind of support she herself had needed to feel safe enough to let down her barriers and fall in love with her powerful, sexy, feminine side. She is on a mission to ensure everybody can access the empowering, pleasure-infused sex education we all wish we’d had.


Find out more at


What is Kurious Kittens?

Kurious Kittens is Killing Kittens little sibling. Where they have joined forces with educators and free-thinkers to educate open-minded people about the world of sex, hedonism and exploration. Topics vary from female biology and orgasms to bondage, mindfulness, meditation and massage. Specialists relative to each subject start the evening with a combination of talks, presentations and exercises which generally lead to further exploration through open discussion.


Our different Kurious events include:

Kurious Talkk - open to both women and men dedicated to teaching you all something new

Bookklub - a night where woman can connect with other like-minded women

Mantalkk - a mens only night for men to discuss real man stuff

Workkshops - our hands-on, interactive events to teach new skills and practices.

Kurious Nights - our social nights at venues around London designed for you to meet new people and have a fabulous Kurious night. 

Read some Kurious reviews here...


Share the experience

Back to Events



BooKKlub: Pleasure Infused Sex-Ed & The Contemporary Goddess


Buy Tickets

Date and Time

Thursday 7th February 2019
19:00 (UTC)


Single Girls: £15.

Dress Code


Event Type

Kurious Kittens (more info)