Kittens and Toms travel far and wide to attend our infamous Killing Kittens parties, but there is a completely different vibe and atmosphere if that party happens to be on your home soil. Here Kitten B tells us of the KK White party in her homeland, Ireland.
The anticipation was building throughout the week and the pre-party group chat was on fire. Excitement mixed with a curiosity of finally getting to meet the people that had been chatting for a few weeks. Pre-drinks were agreed, time and place. My outfit sorted…a white dress with gorgeous white lingerie. The theme for the party was “White” so I wasn’t going to argue with that. I did, however, mix it up with my red shoes. Got to a little bold ….right?
The venue had been confirmed and we were all set. It’s always a great pleasure going to a KK party as it means it’s a night away for Tom and I. No children, just us exploring our sexuality together. But this time we weren’t flying to London or Manchester, this time it was on our home soil… KK had come to Ireland again and we couldn’t wait to meet like-minded people and explore with them.
Arriving for pre-drinks is always a bit nerve-wracking at first. Where are people sitting….oh wait…just look for the white outfits. I’m generally brutal with names so try really hard to find out people’s KK names. So many people use different names in the groups, that if you tell me your real name, I’ll fail miserably at remembering.
Protecting one’s identity is key to personal exploring in the Kommunity, but after a while, we come to realise that we’re all just human with a need within us to explore our sexuality. It’s not a dirty thing, yet society often labels the “swingers” in a negative light, that we feel we must be careful. The biggest fear I’ve faced is actually meeting someone I know from vanilla life at a party. This has never happened, yet, but I’d like to think if it did, we would both be very much accepting of the fact that we’re all there for the same thing….to explore our sexuality in a safe, secure and welcoming environment.
So, back to the party….Wow! Just wow! The venue was amazing with plenty of space to mingle and chat with people. That’s the thing that I adore about KK. It’s not all just about sexual encounters. It’s about meeting people, getting to know them, making connections and friends. My Tom and I have made lots of friends within the Kommunity, most of them we’ve never actually played with. We get along and share a common connection…open minded friendships.
Soon enough the party was full, looking around seeing so many people in white and masks on. I love looking at the different masks that people choose to wear, it somehow identifies their personality. Some looking very comfortable with the additional accessory, others pulling and poking at the discomfort. But one thing is for sure, once the hostess announces to take them off there a lot of happy smiley faces.
You soon and quickly come to realise that not everyone attending is Irish. Such an amazing mix of different nationalities, different accents. Just goes to show that Tom and I are not the only couples to travel from afar for a KK party.
My advice to anyone who is Kurious and wants to join a party…. Come along, join the pre-party group and chat with others, it’s so much easier to arrive with people to look out for.
For my Tom and I, we’re hooked. We love how Killing Kittens has allowed us to explore the intimate sexual side of our relationship. Come to Ireland and see just how welcome our Emerald Isle can be !
Hello, I am Kitten T the Editor of #itsakittensworld, passionate about sexual liberation and anything which encourages female sexual empowerment. I Love horses! You can follow me on Twitter for my latest views on the world of KK