BDSM & Kink

Learn the ropes with how-to articles or explore more about the history of your favorite kinks, with expert articles exclusive to the Killing Kittens blog.

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Exploring Orgasm Denial With A Partner

Part two of Ralph Greco Jr.’s deep dive into all things orgasm denial, this piece looks at playing with a partner. Read part one

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An Introduction To Orgasm Denial

Ralph Greco Jr. takes us on a deep dive into orgasm denial, with this first of a three-part series exploring the delights of being denied.

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Taking Your First Steps Into Kink

So you want to explore your kinky side…? M. Christian is here with their top tips and advice for taking those first steps into the… M. ChristianM. Christian (they/them) has been a writer, editor, publisher, and teacher for all things sex and kink-related for over 25 years: having written six novels, 12 collections, edited 25 anthologies, M. Christian is also a columnist for numerous publications and sites, and has lectured at various events all across the country.  M.Christian co-hosts two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla, with their good friend Ralph Greco, Jr. Website: http://www.mchristian.com Twitter: @mchristianzobop Instagram: mchristianzobop FaceBook: www.facebook.com/mdot.christian

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BDSM Basics Everyone Should Know

Author and educator M. Christian talks us through the BDSM Basics that everyone needs to know. The cane tip arced through the steamy dimness… M. ChristianM. Christian (they/them) has been a writer, editor, publisher, and teacher for all things sex and kink-related for over 25 years: having written six novels, 12 collections, edited 25 anthologies, M. Christian is also a columnist for numerous publications and sites, and has lectured at various events all across the country.  M.Christian co-hosts two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla, with their good friend Ralph Greco, Jr. Website: http://www.mchristian.com Twitter: @mchristianzobop Instagram: mchristianzobop FaceBook: www.facebook.com/mdot.christian

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A Guide To Erotic Choking: Part Two

**CAUTION: BEFORE READING** Point blank: you can’t learn everything you need to know in an article or social media post to engage in any type of… Lola JeanLola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. https://lolajean.com/

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A Guide To Erotic Choking: Part One

Lola Jean is back with another two-part article series, this time taking a look at choking. Choking is an increasingly popular kink but one that… Lola JeanLola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. https://lolajean.com/

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Submissive 101 with Cupcake SinClair

Killing Kittens is thrilled to introduce Submissive Cupcake SinClair to our readers. A “queer submissive woman of colour”, Cupcake is a professional sub… Submissive Cupcake SinClair“Sinfully Sweet & Good Enough to Beat”, Cupcake SinClair (she/it) is a lifestyle and professional submissive of nearly a decade in the western united states. From panels and podcasts, to teaching and demoing classes on a variety of subjects, Cupcake’s goal is to help create a richer understanding of the nuances of kink to create more empowered players within her community. She can be found via her website https://cupcake-sinclair.wixsite.com/sinfullysweet

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How To Engage In Breath Play: Part Two

In part two of her series, Lola Jean talks us through how to get started with breath play.  Image Credit: Audrey Fatale Did you… Lola JeanLola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. https://lolajean.com/

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What Is Breath Play? Part One

This is a bumper weekend on the blog, with two essays on Breath Play. In this first piece, Lola Jean talks us through the whats… Lola JeanLola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. https://lolajean.com/

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The Five Most Common Kinks

Sex Educator Lola Jean dives into the wonderful world of kink and fetish, taking a look at the top five most common kinks and answering… Lola JeanLola Jean is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. https://lolajean.com/