KK Party: A Couple Goes To Hedonism

Whilst all Killing Kittens parties are liberated, sexy and a lot of fun, they differ in atmosphere, attendees and activities…Here, Kitten H (she/her, 33) talks to us about her experience of Hedonism.

At Killing Kittens, everyone apart from cis-gender men is welcome to identify as a Kitten. This includes cis-gender women, trans people of all genders, non-binary people, gender non-conforming people, gender expansive and gender fluid people, as just a few examples! The identity of Kitten (or Guest, for cis-gender men) does not need to be a part of our members’ identities beyond how they function for the purposes of our events.

Signing Up For A Hedonism Party

My first KK party was Kabaret in December. It was a naughty night, and my first sexual experience with another woman which was HOT!

My fiancé and I enjoyed it so much we were keen to get the next party on to the calendar… We looked into the different events and decided on Hedonism for its profile of hot, steamy fun.

Pre-party chat group

For us, it started with the pre-party group chat. Already there were so many fun, sexy people who were open and honest about their kinky fantasies.

As the even started to get nearer, I found I was wound so tight I could have burst with excitement! I didn’t feel nervous, just incredibly turned on ALL THE TIME. To say I needed a release is an understatement.

When the party detail email from KK  landed 24 hours before the party, the group exploded in even more excited chatter!

‘Lingerie or bikini?’

‘Brazillian, Hollywood, Full Bush?’

Eight Steps To Feeling Sexy

‘Swapping or singles play?’

And finally, after what felt like an age, Saturday arrived and the night was upon us!

The Party

We arranged through the group chat to meet up with other party goers for pre-drinks. As we stood by the bar, drinking and making idle chat, the scent of anticipation hung in the air. As my glance landed on each Kitten the thoughts raced through my head – Would they be the one who’d choose to join me and my partner?

The venue was a short walk away. We were greeted with a glass of champagne, a locker key, and a reminder of the KK rules (masks till midnight and Kittens make the first move).

After putting our coats and bags away we moved through to the bar area. Immediately our senses were overwhelmed – in a really good way. We were in a large room with sultry lighting. A pool steamed nearby, and through a door we could see a room with massage tables. There was a sauna, and a Jacuzzi, and open beds pushed together to create little islands for intimacy. So many delightful possibilities to explore!


It didn’t take long for the clothes to start coming off, which was my cue to change into my lingerie. My fiance, naked, headed straight for the pool and whilst I hadn’t intended going in, it was far too inviting. The pool was filled with semi-naked people, some playing, some talking but all so sexy and sensual.

That was where our first encounter took place as we played with another Kitten and moved from the pool to a bed…

Killing Kittens Party: Clitoratti Online

After we went to the bar to grab a drink. There were people playing everywhere! In the rooms, on the sofas, in the pool, in the sauna. Rubbing, touching, licking, f*cking. We fell into our cab at 3 am with the biggest smiles on our faces!

Hedonism had a lot to live up to, but boy did it deliver!

With events from black tie balls to fantasy masquerades, our steamy Hedonism isn’t the only party we offer here at KK.

Make sure you check out our events pages for details of what’s coming up soon…

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