KK Chats: Why You’re Never Too Old To Try New Things

You are never too old to try new things and experiment with new sexcapades. This is certainly the case for Kitten J (she/her), aged 45, who walks us through her journey into KK and the experience of her first sex party in a Scottish Castle last October. This proves that if you are thinking of becoming a Kitten, age really is just a number. And what a location to pop your party cherry in!

At Killing Kittens, everyone apart from cis-gender men is welcome to identify as a Kitten. This includes cis-gender women, trans people of all genders, non-binary people, gender non-conforming people, gender expansive and gender fluid people, as just a few examples! The identity of Kitten (or Guest, for cis-gender men) does not need to be a part of our members’ identities beyond how they function for the purposes of our events.

It started with kuriosity 

I have always been intrigued and interested in exploring my sexuality. However, I didn’t feel comfortable with most of the opportunities that presented themselves in the past.

So, you can imagine my delight when meeting a great gentleman in my mid-forties who suggested we attend a Killing Kittens party. I have to admit, I was slightly apprehensive but mostly kurious and excited to start a new sexual adventure. 

Choosing a party 

I researched the Killing Kittens website and liked the ethos of Kittens being in control, deciding to what extent they want to explore their sexual boundaries. I decided on the party at the Scottish castle. 

The day of the Scottish castle party was fast approaching and it was time to consider what outfit I would wear to make my KK debut. I enjoyed the anticipation of preparing for the party – this was quite an aphrodisiac in itself. 

When the big day arrived, we travelled to a nearby hotel to meet up with other KK couples attending the party. They were all lovely and friendly, which made me feel at ease. 

Entering the castle 

I arrived at the fantastic castle venue with my amazing companion. I was quite nervous putting on my mask, but the organisers and the party guests soon made me feel at ease. It was just like any ordinary party with drinks, chatting, and getting to know one another. 

We then ventured up to the higher floors of the castle to see what sexy possibilities lay ahead. The venue was stunning and it wasn’t long before the party began to get naughty. It was such a sexual thrill to be sensual in the company of like-minded people.

My partner and I began to get very turned on and went up to one of the rooms so we could be more intimate together in private, though it was very exciting to think someone could walk in on us and see us together. After having some fun upstairs we decided to venture into the hot tub. Here, my sexual limits were pushed and I behaved very naughtily with some other with Kittens and Guests… It was such a turn on.

Sexual awakening

I will always remember my first KK party at the age of 45 as a new sexual awakening and the start of my sexual self-discovery. I found out what makes me feel desired. 

Since then, I’ve attended more parties and each time I’ve explored different facets of my sexuality. I would recommend anyone who wants to go on a sexual journey to go to a KK party. You only live once and I believe you only regret the things you never tried. 

Speaking from personal experience, you are never too old to try new things and the parties provide a no-pressure, sensual environment in which to explore your sexual fantasies – whatever your age. 

Want to discover more about your sexual self? 

Our events offer the experience of a lifetime where people can explore their sexuality in a daring yet safe and controlled way. Discover our sexciting parties and workshops, where Kittens are always in control!

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