To play or not to play, that is the question?

Killing Kittens parties are the best! KK members who attend our world-renowned parties come to fulfill different desires and fantasies. For some it is an orgy, others are on the search for a unicorn, a single Tom, or another hot couple to play with. The possibilities are endless.

Some People, however, simply come to soak up the atmosphere, a sensual evening, where they may not play, but enjoy exploring their boundaries, experiencing the unique erotic atmosphere and thoroughly enjoying the evening. Kitten G (36) is one such Kitty, who has given us a review on what to expect from a KK party, and why she chooses to have KK in her life.

Kitten G’s First Party Review

I have been happily married for 12 years, yes honestly, happily married. I am lucky enough to still find my husband the sexiest man in a room (saying this I have never been in a room with Idris Elba), and I still prefer his company to anyone else.

Through our years of marriage, we have dabbled with the idea of ‘swinging’ and have joined some horrendous sites where I received what felt like thousands of ‘dic pics’ yet not one conversation. I would leave me feeling disheartened and time after time, I would decide it was not for me. Yet, the idea always kept popping back up, and the fantasy of my husband sharing me and vice versa has always felt so erotic and a massive turn on for us both.


Finding Killing Kittens

One evening whilst trawling the internet, my husband found the Killing Kittens website. He asked if I wanted to join, at this point I was kind of done with the tacky sites. I had a look, expecting not to be impressed, yet to my surprise, I liked it. The fact that the Kittens were in charge, that the kittens had no rules, yet the gentlemen had to be gentlemen, really reached out to me. I decided to do more research on Killing Kittens and Emma Sayle (the founder). The more I found out about KK, and Emma’s ethos behind it, the more it appealed to me.

We decided to sign up. I was intrigued to find out more. My husband and I joined one of the KIK groups and met some other really gorgeous couples, who we had lots of cyber fun with!

I slowly began to understand women’s empowerment and liberation within sex. I felt free, confident, and for the first time, the thoughts that aroused us both, did not seem taboo or dirty. We were normal, we just had fantasies, which were shared by so many other couples. This realisation made me feel strong, sexy and extremely excited.

We chatted with so many people, singles, couples, the gentlemen really were gentlemen, and the women were fierce. I Loved it! This led my husband and I talking through every scenario possible, months of amazing sex and a closeness I had never experienced with him before. I knew I loved the fantasy and freedom of the swinging lifestyle, and cyber seemed a safe way to explore, but also felt I was not comfortable with the reality. Yet, I wanted everything KK, I wanted to be a Kitten, I wanted the freedom, to feel like I was in charge of what I wanted, and what I didn’t, was ok! It was all up to me!

Wanting to explore our boundaries further, we decided to bite the bullet and book our first party. I was eager to see what it was all about, was it as hot as people said? and would we want to jump right in and get involved? We were both full of nerves, and a few days before my husband almost canceled, but the hotel was booked, I had the dress, the lingerie, the mask, my hair was booked in and we had paid, so there was no way I was going to turn back now!

The Party

The day of the party arrived and I was more excited than nervous. We drove to the hotel and spent the day, relaxing and getting ready. The anticipation of attending the party and my husband suited and booted and looking so sexy, set the tone for the rest of the evening.

On arrival to the party, we walked through the doors of the KK Country House. We were greeted by the hosts, who took our names, crossed us off a list and gave us a token for a drink. The hosts were so welcoming that the minute we walked in, the nerves just disappeared, the atmosphere was amazing, so chilled, like a super glamorous house party. The house was immense, even the decor was seductive. Dimly lit, where every room screamed party. We proceeded to the bar area, the DJ playing in the background. I was pleasantly surprised at how attractive everyone was. I knew KK was vetted but hadn’t expected the standards to be as high as they were.

We walked around the house, drinks in hand, chatting with other couples and Kittens. Normal things, compliments on hair, dresses, I almost forgot I was at a sex party until a Kitten walked past in nothing but a pair of killer heels, and a butt plug with a tail! People were walking past in various degrees of undress, which was just adding to the excitement.


After an hour or so we decided to explore the house. We started with the Dungeon Masters room. We entered into the room to see a Kitten riding the Sybian, in a state of pure bliss, having orgasm after orgasm, while another was being tied up by a Rope Master from the wooden frames. It was extremely erotic, and we sat together and watched for a while.

We then moved on to explore the bedrooms, in every room were huge beds, with chairs scattered around. People were having sex everywhere, couples, Kittens, all entwined together in ecstasy. The bodies were amazing. Every scenario we had fantasized over, was right there in front of us. My husband and I sat on the chairs together watching, while he gently stroked me, exchanging passionate kisses and seductive looks. It was the hottest experience for us both.

To swap or not to swap?

The night flew by, with a cocktail of mingling, watching and just being together in an atmosphere that I simply can not explain, so highly sexually charged, yet so chilled and friendly, no aggravation, just sex! And though by far it was the most erotic, sensual evening I had ever attended, I knew that the reality of swapping wasn’t for me. The fantasy is where my boundaries lie.

With KK I know that I can make that choice.I feel empowered that I can set my boundaries and change them if it’s what I want. I can be in that sexually charged environment and feel safe, no one is going to invade my space unless I want it or stick their cock in my mouth uninvited!

We went back to our hotel together and had amazing sex, and for weeks after! Although I know that swinging isn’t for me, I can’t wait for our next party. I still want to be part of KK and I still believe in everything that it stands for. It is a movement, not just a sex party, and I am thrilled to be part of it.

Whatever fantasy you are looking to fulfill, be it a mass orgy or soaking up the electric atmosphere, the KK parties have something for you. To be part of the Killing Kittens movement, join our Kommunity and come along to the best parties in the world!