Threesomes & Couple Privilege

Sex educator Lola Jean takes a look at the concept of Couple Privilege. What does this mean, and how can we deal with it? Read…


Being In A Relationship With My Boss

Mia Schachter reflects on the time they were in a relationship with their boss, and what they learned about boundaries. “Let’s hire a dominatrix…


Things To Know When You Enter An Open Relationship

Writer Alice Broster offers advice and resources for people thinking about exploring open relationships Open relationships are more accepted now in mainstream culture than…


Non-Monogamy and You…Or Rather, Us

Writer M. Christian takes a look at Non-Monogamy, offering advice for starting out and maintaining polyamorous, open and ENM relationships One of the most valuable things…


Exploring The World Of Nipple Play

Dive into the world of nipple play, with this article from Serena Red. From clover clamps to temperature teases, there’s a lot to explore when…


An Introduction To Chastity

For the final piece in his three-part series on orgasm denial, Ralph Greco Jr. takes a look at all things chastity. Language note: This…


In Conversation With…Bump’n

December 3rd is the International Day for People with Disabilities. To mark the occasion our blog editor Esme caught up with Bump’n, a sex…


How To Have Fun At A Sex Party

Sex educator Lola Jean gives her top tips for having fun at sex parties. Whether you’re a seasoned sex party pro or you’re gearing…


Finding Pleasure With Vaginismus

Language note: This article is a personal story about one cisgender woman’s experience of vaginismus and her advice based on these experiences. It…


An Introduction To Slow Sex

In this blog Asa Baav, coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched takes a closer look into what slow sex is, what the benefits are, and…


Exploring Orgasm Denial With A Partner

Part two of Ralph Greco Jr.’s deep dive into all things orgasm denial, this piece looks at playing with a partner. Read part one


Femme Domme to Bully Boy: A Story Of Gender Affirmation

Lorde (he/they) rounds off Transgender Awareness Week on the blog by taking a look at his personal journey from Femme Domme to Bully Boy.


Transgender Awareness Week: Awareness Without Activism

Activist and author Ben Pechey (they/them) writes on the current state of trans awareness and activism in the UK, encompassing their personal experiences and calling…


Polyamorous Dating & Parenthood: Dos and Don’ts

This week is Transgender Awareness Week, and Killing Kittens is thrilled to introduce a new writer to our readers! Lorde (he/they) is a nonbinary trans…


Fun First Date Ideas

Ben Pechey (they/them) shares some first date success stories 💕 Dating can sometimes feel like a minefield. With so many variables at play, from…


Seven Sexy Tips For Long-Distance Relationships

Keep the passion alive with Alice Broster’s tips for long-distance relationships Negotiating long-distance relationships can be tough. And living apart from your partner(s) has…


How To Read A How-To Article

Consent Educator and Intimacy Coordinator Mia Schachter (they/them) gets meta on advice columns.  Through my teens, at airports and grocery store checkout lines I…


An Introduction To Orgasm Denial

Ralph Greco Jr. takes us on a deep dive into orgasm denial, with this first of a three-part series exploring the delights of being denied.


A KK Guide To Blowjobs

Take a deep dive into the art of the blowjob with Angel Arts. A certified sex trainer, Angel knows a thing or two when it…


Questions To Ask On A First Date

Ever been on a date that felt like a job interview, or sat twiddling your thumbs in awkward silence? Ben Pechey is here to help,…


All About All The Feelings: Let’s Talk Jealousy

Writer Charlotte Moore asked people in open and poly relationships about how to manage the so-called “green-eyed monster”, as well as exploring why jealousy might not…


The KK Guide To First Dates

Ben Pechey gives us their advice on how to navigate the world of first dates.  The dating world is a tricky world to navigate….


Taking Your First Steps Into Kink

So you want to explore your kinky side…? M. Christian is here with their top tips and advice for taking those first steps into the…


Period Sex: Your Questions Answered

Author and educator Tara Costello addresses people’s most common questions about how to have sex when it’s that time of the month.  Language Note: this article…