Here’s our Guide to BDSM Dating

Single and ready to mingle? Exhausted the swipe right options? Looking for the best BDSM app to tap up? 

Dating websites have been around for years, a saving grace for many a singleton looking for…looking for what?  Love? Except what if you want something different…you are BDSM curious…you have dipped your toe in the BDSM scene…your nerve endings are tingling and you’re looking for a BDSM dating app that will broaden your online dating experience and allow you to pursue your new (or not so new) found lifestyle.  

Where do you start if you want a BDSM dating lifestyle? 

We weigh up your options to explore the BDSM world of dating in the UK…

  1. Alt.Com – dating websites date back to the 1990’s and over the years have evolved to embrace the kinks and alternative choices individuals choose to pursue. Alt.com is a great place to explore with a broad spectrum of ‘alternatives’. New to the BDSM scene or a seasoned pro there’s something for everyone.  Community is at the heart of this site with like-minded chat groups within the site. For those of you new to the BDSM scene a newbies group exists to break you in gently. Like-minded people will connect over kinks and fetishes and private chats exist for those those not quite ready to dive straight in on the public forums. As the name suggests…Alt.com embraces the alternative and as far as BDSM apps go…we love the community angle so we’re a fan!

 

  1. Killingkittens.com – We couldn’t do a blog post without mentioning our fave website 😉  Killing Kittens seeks to challenge the status quo of the dating world. It welcomes a broad range of members who embrace the BDSM scene. Community is key, members are vetted, real connections are encouraged and workshops and events are offered tailored specifically towards the BDSM curious. Workshops such as ‘Domming 101’ and ‘Impact Play and Restraints’ are held with a view to expanding BDSM experiences, meeting fellow members, building on repertoires and honing skills.

 

  1. BDSMDatingonly.com – Online BDSM dating doesn’t come much more straight forward then this BDSM app. Enter a world of exploration and numerous BDSM play options…from bondage to kink this site covers it all off.  Renowned for its incredibly active database of members, you’ll expect a reply almost instantly as many a member engages in daily interaction from behind their office desks. If you’re looking for a BDSM dating website with efficient and fast features backed up by a 24/7 online presence of eager members then this is the BDSM app to hit up.   

 

  1. FetLife.Com – online dating has been in existence pretty much since the creation of the internet…it’s understandable that online BDSM dating would follow suit. Where mainstream sites such as Match.com targets those who err on the side of traditional dating (whatever that is…) alternative sites wholly embrace the common desire to find their match…be it through a more vanilla approach or the BDSM scene…cupid’s moto is that there’s a match out there for everyone. Step in Fetlife.com – a BDSM dating app that has been around for a while! Join up and embrace your inner kink, your secret or not so secret fetish will be welcomed by like minded members. As with all sites they pride themselves on their sense of community. And as with geographical communities who revel in the art of real life communication Fetlife.com prides itself on its real sense of community and communication. Tick a few boxes and hey presto you have a match? This won’t happen on this site…instead it’s your place to use the BDSM scene on the site and immerse yourself in its community to find your match…either online or through one of their advertised events. 

 

  1. MatchBDSM.com – BDSM curious, single and ready to mingle…then MatchBDSM.com is the site for you. As someone once said…”I want to do things so wild with you that I don’t know how to say them”…this site welcomes anyone…absolutely anyone regardless of experience and knowledge. BDSM ranges from a variety of practices from binding, tying, restraining all for the pursuit of erotic, aesthetic or somatosensory stimulation…feeling BDSM curious? Whilst some may prefer the vetting procedures on other sites, MatchBDSM.com offers a representation of every possible type of kink, fetish, preference within the BDSM scene – you name it (or think it)…it’s there.

 

  1. MyBDSMHookUps.com – domination…power dynamics…a woman in charge. That pretty much sums up MyBDSMHookUps.com where the women flock onto the site with an aim to drive a man wild. The submissive role of a male is hotly debated but absolutely reinforced making this site clear in its message. If you’re entering the BDSM dating scene in the UK as a woman with a view to be being the boss then in you come. Consent is key as with every BDSM app.   

If it’s a sex positive, open and progressive experience you’re after then step right in..no swiping required! 

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