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A Guide To Erotic Choking: Part One

Lola Jean is back with another two-part article series, this time taking a look at choking. Choking is an increasingly popular kink but one that…

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Submissive 101 with Cupcake SinClair

Killing Kittens is thrilled to introduce Submissive Cupcake SinClair to our readers. A “queer submissive woman of colour”, Cupcake is a professional sub…

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How To Explore Your Erogenous Zones

My neck…my back… Editor’s Note: This article is intended to be broad in gender application. We would like to acknowledge that not everyone uses the same…

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How To Take Mirror Selfies

Here to talk you through the benefits and beauty of the humble mirror selfie is Ben Pechey. Turns our there’s more to mirror selfies than…

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Kissing & Too Hot To Handle: A Personal Essay

In this piece, writer Rachel Charlton-Dailey talks about what kissing means to her. TW. This article mentions abusive relationships. If this is something that you…

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How To Engage In Breath Play: Part Two

In part two of her series, Lola Jean talks us through how to get started with breath play.  Image Credit: Audrey Fatale Did you…

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What Is Breath Play? Part One

This is a bumper weekend on the blog, with two essays on Breath Play. In this first piece, Lola Jean talks us through the whats…

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Six New Sex Positions To Try This Weekend

Writer Beth Ashley talks us through a hot six sex positions to try this weekend.  We all have our go-to great sex positions on…

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The Five Most Common Kinks

Sex Educator Lola Jean dives into the wonderful world of kink and fetish, taking a look at the top five most common kinks and answering…

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Period Sex: Everything You Need To Know

Author and educator Tara Costello breaks down everything you need to know about period sex and how to have a bloody good time doing it.  Language…

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Being in a Relationship with a Man Doesn’t Make Me Straight

The battle of being bi: Rachael Davies talks about her experiences of biphobia. “But how does that work exactly? How can you be bisexual…

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Penis Masturbation: Tips and Toys You Need To Know

Writer M. Christian talks us through some tips and tricks for pleasurable penis masturbation.  Language note: This article is for people with penises. It may be…

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Sober Hedonism: How To Go To Sex Parties Sober

Erotica writer Ida J talks about her experiences of sex parties and sobriety. This article comes with a content warning for substance/alcohol abuse and addiction. 

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Should Enthusiasm Be A Requirement For Sex?

Intimacy Coordinator and Consent Educator Mia Schachter takes a look at the concept of enthusiast consent, and asks whether the term provides more problems than…

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Edging and Anal Masturbation

Are you a person with a penis or a prostate? Then you’ll want to read this new article from writer M. Christian about the benefits…

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A Guide To Writing Erotic Fiction

They don’t stock these in the local library…or do they? Blog Editor Esme Mahoney waxes lyrical about the erotic charge of literary classics  If…

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Be Fierce! An Interview With Laura Wells

Killing Kittens caught up with one of our fave collaborators Laura Wells. In this interview, Laura talks about the beginnings of her brand Be Fierce…

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What Is Squirting?

Queen of the Skene’s (glands) Lola is back with a deep, splashy dive into the wonderful world of squirting.  Squirting is a physical manifestation…

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Anal Sex: Your Questions Answered

You asked, and Jessica Parker is answering. All you’ve ever wanted to know about anal sex – and then some. The great thing about…

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Don’t Let Shame Limit Your Sex Life

Alice Broster speaks to sex and relationship therapists about how to stop shame from limiting your sex life.   Many Toms and Kittens know that…

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How To Use A Gag During Sex

Serena Red talks us through her top ten tools for getting a bit of peace and quiet, starting with taking a look at ball gags….

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Spanking: The Basics

Sex Ed queen Lola Jean is here to talk us through everyone’s favourite cheeky kink  Spanking is one of the most accessible kinks. You…

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How To Introduce Your Deepest Fantasy To A Lover

Ralph Greco, Jr. talks us through the do’s and don’ts of bringing those dark and dirty fantasies out into the open The irony isn’t…

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How PCOS Affects My Sex Life

Writer Katie Baskerville talks openly about how PCOS has affected her sex life and her journey getting to grips with the condition during lockdown