*** NOTE: this class is intended for men/trans/non-binary people with penises ***

This Valentines Day doesn't have to be about two people. Fuck the haters and choose to make love to yourself. We're going all out: get your chocolates, essential oils, Prosecco, and of course your hand (and LUBE)

The best love is self love, so why do we tend to rush this act as opposed to taking the time to enjoy it? This class will leave you looking at self-love in a new light. Think of this as a yoga class for your bits. Whether it is getting out of your head, into your body or working through the ability to receive touch. Perhaps this is 90 uninterrupted minutes focused on yourself and your bits. The first half is a talk & learn and the second half is guided touch.

Starting with a few basics on anatomy and pleasure zones. Instructor Lola Jean will take you through a genital meditation, a vocally guided self-touch journey. Partake in a few exercises that will help expand your views and understanding on masturbation as well as your own body - from the penis to the perineum.

The focus of this Valentines class is Making Love to Yourself. This masturbation isn't about the person you're thinking of, the porn your watching or the toy you're using. This is about YOU, your body and your appreciation of it. Are you always chasing an orgasm? Does your masturbation feel stagnant? Is it difficult to focus on pleasure due to hangups?

In addition to loving our bodies through touch we will work to understand the root of our shame, negativity and self-doubt and confront this head on.

All you need for this class is yourself and your hand. A nude inspired class, nudity is fully optional as masturbation can be done with clothes on too. This is a safe and body positive space to be vulnerable both physically and mentally. You are not required to be on camera for any of the class. Typically folx position the camera towards their face only for the second portion. For the masturbation portion I will be positioning my screen so I don't see any of the attendees who do with to show their cameras.


Do I have to turn my camera on? Do I have to look at other people?
It is your choice if you choose to turn your camera on or off

Are you going to look at me masturbating and coach my technique specifically?
I will not be looking at everyone's individual camera and I am not specifically coaching each persons masturbation. There is a general guide you can follow, or veer off into your own path

Is there a recording of the workshop?
The workshop is not recorded for intimacy and privacy's sake

What happens if I ejaculate in the middle of the class?
This workshop has a focus on touch, sensation and getting into the body rather than achieving goals. Think of it like a mediation but for your junk. Things come up, acknowledge it and move along.

Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Fetish Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and self proclaimed Olympian Squirter. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes. Lola's background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.

Please note: This workshop is not hosted by KK and may be advertised on other platforms.

All of our Educators and their workshops are approved and recommended by Killing Kittens.

This workshop is still free for premium members.

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Love Thyself: A Self-Pleasure - Online Workshop


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Sunday 9th May 21
21:00 BST


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