Nudity Note: This is not a practical workshop, and there will be no nudity on screen. Get comfy, listen and learn.

Get clear on the question "what are you into?" and how to express your sexual preferences and desires to a partner

So....what are you into? 

This can be a tough question to answer. 

A lot of us aren’t sure what we are into when it comes to sex because we haven’t spent much time intentionally exploring what turns us on. 

And if we do know, it can still be awkward or uncomfortable to share in front of a partner. How much detail do you give? What if they react negatively? 

The question "what are you into?" can feel broad and overwhelming. So, often we will just reply, "the normal stuff, nothing crazy!" or "what we are doing!"

In this workshop our brand ambassadors Squirm we will help you craft your unique and specific answers to "what are you into?" 

Together, we cover topics such as types of touch, moods and styles, settings, kinks, fantasies vs desires, and toys and props. 

We will focus not only on the words that you can use in describing preferences to your partner, but also provide you with prompts and exercises to continue discovering what you are into as your sexuality evolves. 

We will cover

💋Why is this question difficult (but important!)

💋Communication as foreplay

💋Personal guideposts when exploring your desires

💋Components to crafting your unique answers (touch, style, toys, fantasies, kinks)

💋Putting words to your overall desires as well as specific in-the-moment preferences

💋Games and activities to share preferences with a partner (from casual to committed)

This workshop is open to anyone who is curious about exploring their sexual desires, putting words to these desires, and getting the words out in front of a partner. 

The workshop is open to all genders, orientations, and relationships styles and structures.

Tailor Matched is a thought leading matchmaking agency based in the UK that connects singles based on compatibility both inside and outside the bedroom. They are the only dating agency worldwide that creates personal introductions based on sexual, emotional and intellectual compatibility. 

Squirm is an adult sex education platform. We create educational, erotic, and entertaining content that promotes healthy sexual communication. Squirm explores everything from the yikes-so-squirmy to the squirm-so-good, and the vulnerability that ties it all together.

Please note: This event is not hosted by KK and may be advertised on other platforms.

All of our Educators and their events are approved and recommended by Killing Kittens.

This event is still free for Premium users.



Voicing Your Sexual Desires


Date and Time

Sunday 5th Feb 23
19:00 GMT


Kitten Ticket

Tom Ticket

Kitten + Guest Ticket

Dress Code

Comfortable attire

Event Type