Nudity Note: This is a webinar style workshop. There will be no nudity on screen, and no need for nudity from participants. Get comfy, listen and learn

The most common concern for partnered-up people looking to attend their first KK party, or explore ethical non monogamy (ENM) in other ways, is: what if I feel jealous? Singles are not immune to the "green eyed monster", either, whether that's fearing a dynamic of jealousy between a couple/the people they might play with or experiencing the emotion themselves.

Jealousy is presented throughout our culture as among the nastiest of emotions, even capable of inspiring murder; definitely something to fear and avoid. The assumption of jealousy on seeing one’s partner sexually involved with someone else is so strong that this is the scenario jealousy researchers typically ask participants to imagine.

Yet people experienced with ENM report working in a healthy way with jealousy, rather than never feeling it or seeking to suppress it. They also describe the other end of the spectrum, compersion, where one derives joy and pleasure from seeing their partner’s pleasure with someone else.

In this workshop, Ruth will share an overview of what jealousy is, what the latest research says about it and help you examine your own relationship with this emotion.

This workshop will explore:

  •  What jealousy is
  •  Where your beliefs around jealousy have come from
  •  Jealousy in sexual scenarios – the ultimate trigger?
  •  New ways of looking at this emotion
  •  How we can approach jealousy in beneficial ways
  •  Compersion
  •  Your own jealousy audit
  •  … and more

This will be fascinating and enlightening viewing, whether you’re single or partnered, looking to open a relationship up or simply to wanting to expand your emotional intelligence.

Meet Ruth Ramsay (she/her): Ex-striptease artist turned sex coach. TEDx speaker and UK Erotic Award winner. From kink dungeons to Parliament, her journey has been diverse. With coaching expertise, she guides you to embrace desires, communicate effectively, and unleash your sexy energy. Get ready to boost your confidence, both in the bedroom and beyond. Ruth's here to help you own your pleasure.

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Jealousy: monstrous emotion, or misunderstood?


Date and Time

Thursday 30th Nov 23
20:30 BST


Kitten Ticket

Tom Ticket

Kitten + Guest Ticket

Dress Code

<p>Comfortable attire</p>

Event Type