Are you ready to break free from, or shed the limiting or toxic relationship patterns that block you from finding or feeling confident in love or building the fulfilling, healthy relationship you want and deserve?

Are you ready to replace limiting belief systems with empowering ones and be in the driver's seat of your own love life?

Do you feel stuck and know you want to change these patterns but don’t know how or feel unable to take steps to change them?

Are you ready to truly change the way you show up in partnership and live the love story you want to tell? I know, I have been there and created this workshop to demystify this process and empower you with the knowledge, tools, and practices to empower you to do exactly that!

The truth is, you can’t change what you are unaware of. Uncovering the messages you consciously or subconsciously learned growing up or through past experiences (what you saw, were told or how you were treated) which created your current programming, is the key to changing those patterns that no longer serve. Here’s the good news; our past experiences and programming might create our patterns and current experience of love, but you can replace and upgrade those patterns with supportive ones and therefore begin to receive the aligned love you authentically want. 

The Workshop is designed to help you illuminate the limiting beliefs and programming that show up in your daily experience of love and empower you with the framework of understanding, transformational somatic and narrative practices and tools to enable you to reprogram your love patterning from limiting, inauthentic and harmful to empowering, expansive and aligned! By recognising and shedding these old psychological or emotional patterns around love or partnership that no longer serve, you can start making actionable changes to how you show up in your life and love. 

In this workshop, you will learn…. 

⚡ How by looking at the past, or origin story, we learn that we have a choice, either to keep re-enacting the past or to reconstruct our future

⚡ How do shedding the psychological or emotional patterns you have around love and partnership 

⚡ How do experiences, and relationships you saw and had in childhood inform your patterns today (how you communicate, think, behave, choose partners etc.) in love 

⚡ How the route to finding true aligned love is through understanding your relationship pattern and program

⚡How, who we attract or are attracted to are ‘hardwired’ into our brains and bodies and how to change it 

⚡ What is neuroplasticity and how to harness its power to upgrade your default behaviour and thought patterns in the brain 

⚡Why do you keep making the same ‘mistakes’, attracting the same partners, or feeling the same way in relationship after relationship

⚡How relationships with parents and partners mirror each other and how to break cycles in relationship dynamics

Who this workshop is for?

This workshop is for singles and couples who want to learn more about relationships. If you are tired of working hard at your relationships but never really quite getting what you want from a relationship or your partner, this workshop is for you. Sharing your origin story, relationship blocks or patterns is encouraged but not compulsory. It can be vulnerable to do so, but we will create a safe and fun! space to support each other. It requires no previous theoretical understanding or experience of therapy or personal development and offers actionable steps and reflections to implement in your life.

Tailor Matched is a thought leading matchmaking agency based in the UK, operating internationally, that connects singles based on compatibility both inside and outside the bedroom. They are the only dating agency worldwide that creates personal introductions based on sexual, emotional and intellectual compatibility.

Julia Scott helps individuals transform their limiting beliefs, heal their wounded and dysregulating 'parts' & learn to reconnect with their authentic self, so they can feel inner peace, freedom and vitality. 

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Reprogram Toxic Bonds & Dating Patterns


Date and Time

Sunday 1st Oct 23
18:00 BST


Kitten Ticket

Tom Ticket

Kitten + Guest Ticket

Dress Code

<p>Comfortable attire</p>

Event Type