Nudity Note: This is a webinar style workshop. There will be no nudity on screen, and no nudity from participants. Get comfy, listen and learn. Please have a pen and paper ready for the guided self-coaching.

If you’ve not yet been to a sex party, you probably have a lot of questions. Many of the practical ones - what to wear, what to bring, whether there are lockers, event times etc - will have answers in the FAQs for the individual party events (Killing Kittens Torture Garden etc) listed on the WeAreX app.

 But how about the ones which are personal to you – how do you know you’re ready to go to a party, how do you speak with your partner about it if you have one, how do you make sure everyone gets the most from the experience?

 In this workshop, sex coach Ruth Ramsay will share some general wisdom around approaching your first party, then guide you to explore:

  • Are you ready to attend a sex party?
  • Is your relationship ready?
  • What do you hope for from the experience?
  • What might your personal challenges be?
  • How to prepare for your first event… 

…and lots more.

Putting this kind of thought into preparing for your first party is the best way to make sure it’s the first of many great experiences!

Meet Ruth Ramsay (she/her): Ex-striptease artist turned sex coach. TEDx speaker and UK Erotic Award winner. From kink dungeons to Parliament, her journey has been diverse. With coaching expertise, she guides you to embrace desires, communicate effectively, and unleash your sexy energy. Get ready to boost your confidence, both in the bedroom and beyond. Ruth's here to help you own your pleasure.

Please note: This event is not hosted by X and may be advertised on other platforms.

All of our Educators and their events are approved and recommended by WeAreX App.

This workshop is still free for X Plus users.



Your First Play Party


Date and Time

Thursday 12th Oct 23
20:00 BST


Kitten Ticket

Tom Ticket

Kitten + Guest Ticket

Dress Code

<p>Comfortable attire</p>

Event Type