What we stand for

KK Values

We strive to create inclusive spaces and challenge outdated gender stereotypes. We openly address issues related to sex, relationships, and equitable pleasure and expect respect for our values of uplifting women, transgender, and non-binary people.

  • Gender equity1.

    Gender equity

    We are a company with equity at our core. When we say that only Killing Kittens’ Members can buy tickets to our parties, and decide who they want to invite as Guests, we practice equity.

    Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.

  • Body positivity2.

    Body positivity

    We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.

    We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.

  • Toxic Masculinity3.

    Toxic Masculinity

    Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have implemented rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity, which is the perpetuation of oppression, prioritises cisgender male comfort and pleasure above the needs of others. It can manifest as touching without asking, over-familiarity, and entitlement.

    While we recognise that not all cisgender men exhibit toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This is not about labelling all men as bad, but rather acknowledging the realities of our society and working towards creating a more inclusive and respectful environment for all genders.

  • Safety & Consent4.

    Safety & Consent

    Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.

    Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.

  • Respect & Community5.

    Respect & Community

    At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.

    Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.

  • Inclusivity6.


    Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.

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If our values don't resonate with you, KK probably isn’t the right fit for you. But if you like what you hear and our values align with yours, then you’re probably one of us and we invite you to join our movement.

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