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Sharing My Husband With Other Women Makes Us Stronger

we learn from one KK member about how inviting other women into the most intimate aspects of her life has heightened her sex life, and made her marriage stronger.
by KK
23 Oct 2018

UPDATED: 15 Nov 2022

ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED: 23 Oct 2018

Over the last few months, I have learned that I love sharing my husband with other women. That might sound like a complete contradiction, yet contrary to curious friends’ suggestions, our marriage is genuinely not in trouble. 

Husband sharing isn’t something I’d ever imagined would feature in my marriage. And yet, I find myself enjoying sharing my husband with another woman.

Sharing My Husband 

Where it all began

We are sociable souls, and we have always been enthusiastically tactile and forward with our feelings. It has felt like an entirely natural progression to open up our sexual relationship.

I have never been a jealous person, and have never had an issue with most of his friends being female. As an openly bisexual woman, the idea of being free to explore with women whilst having my husband involved has only ever been a thrilling thought. Perhaps unusually, he took a little more convincing.

We married relatively young, for our generation at least, and truth be told we hit a bit of a wall as far as sex was concerned. We realised that sex was almost becoming a chore, and where once we had discussed fantasies and kinks, we were too tired, too busy, almost too bored to be enthusiastic about it.

How To Share Your Husband

It was a touchy issue to broach, especially as my sex drive has always been higher, and I struggled to explain that my wanting to play with others did not stem from anything he was doing wrong – or not doing. It also helps that I’ve never been shy about asking for what I want. I would always recommend that, if it is important to you, sex is a regular topic of conversation between partners from day one of a relationship. 

Since bringing other women into our bed (and sofa and shower and… ) and sharing my husband, it’s not just our sex life that has been reinvigorated. Our conversations are deeper; our appreciation of each other day-to-day has been revitalised; even our focus on our careers has been revived.

The way I see it, I am incredibly lucky to have found my perfect companion in life – why should I keep him all to myself? He’s my partner for life and I’m proud to share my husband.

New Discoveries

Maybe I have a hidden voyeuristic streak, but my favourite discovery so far has been that I love to watch him with other women. There is something to be said for watching the man you love whisper in another woman’s ear, holding her close, teasing her… and catching your eye as he does so.

Our love and desire for each other has grown exponentially the more we have explored, and our trust in each other has never been up for debate. There is no question that I could ever be replaced as his life partner or he mine. We have the best of both worlds, in being able to share the security of our relationship at the same time as igniting the spark of flirtation and excitement that only a first date can inspire.

Do you want to open up your relationship?

Make sure you check out these other articles, on things to know when entering open relationships and threesomes and couple privilege

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