Everything you need to know about Domming.
With the help of Dom and sex Educator, Lola Jean
The world of Sub and Dom is an increasingly searched area on the web so we take a look at the meaning of dom and domming, how to be a dom, how to be a better dom if you’re actively involved already and the meaning of dimming.
A domme is a female dominant in a BDSM role. Being a domme is a big responsibility, so it’s important you understand the rules.
What is a dom? What is domming? Why do Doms like being Doms?
Dom vs sub
A dom plays the dominant sexual role.
A sub plays the submissive sexual role.
How to be a Dom
- Shame-Based – sexualizing shame or taboo mentally or physically
- Objectification – image-based sexualization or physical acts
- Service-Oriented – someone who thrives off of validation, following rules, knowing what is expected of them and/or making others happy
- Brat / Fight for Top – an individual who requires a specific tension and dynamic for varying reasons. They can be looked at as a puzzle or a fun challenge. Not necessarily to be “tamed” but perhaps to be allowed to run wild and free within a contained non-physical spac
Why do people enjoy being dominated
How to implement sexual dominance in public
Small gestures, between the two of you, can be a way to cultivate intimacy in public. Your submissive can wear a particular outfit or undergarments you picked out for them, perhaps being a little secret that you share.
Example: A gentleman who attended one of my Domming class once asked how to approach a new submissive who identified as a little and wanted him to take the Dom Daddy role. This was hard for him to embody as he feels most at home as a more demanding, stern military type. I asked him if he could adjust the framework. An important piece within Dd/lg is the protection and care which is especially important in the beginning and end. What if he started as the caring Daddy and his personality *switched* at some point, then towards the end he’d “snap out of it” and explain “I’m sorry darling, I don’t know what came over me.” Then proceed to provide ALL the aftercare.
How to be a good Dom/Common mistakes doms make
Hello, I’m Kitten E, Education & Content Manager here at KK. I’m passionate about educating people about sex in order to remove stigmas and judgment.